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This is definitely gonna be a quickie...because my bed is calling me....its been a LONG day...after the LONG night last night...
And then JUST when i think things are getting settled i have to deal with Taylors father....
So lets recap here QUICKLY....
One...last night was BAD..and i dealt with a LOT..and still really am dealing with that...words were exchanged with someone tht i never thought would be....and it left a mark...and big one....but thats all that needs said about that....
Now...HIM....
UGH..so let me make this easy....i have custody of taylor...as i should....she goes every other weekend and then on a summer schedule....now here is the thing...her FATHER has not picked her up in a minimum of 2 years...nor for the two weeks that she is home has he called her....he is quick to tell me that i always want a fight...then a few weeks ago he wanted me back So after being screamed at by his gf...i told her all of this..and sent her the messages...point fingers in your own home not here
then the last time she was down there she stayed til monday because they were off school...
ok fine...i scheduled her pick up time...
well his Girlfriend didnt like the time..mind you he was at work...so he would not have been with her..i had class and she had homework and on top of the fact that she needed fed and a bath etc for school the following day...
this started a whole ordeal with me being a bad mother and so on (from the gf....)
well...now....again heard nothing for two weeks....til this morning his mother called and said that she didnt have a way to get taylor tomorrow..i said no biggie of course shes FINE at home....obviously!!!!
well now at ten oclock he texts me to say his gf will get her...and that i need to be there early cause she has to work..ok..so where is taylor going to be??? if neither of you will be home???
i try to call...well "i cannot be civil..oh and now i want to be"...NO WAIT i am civil...but i am also logical when it comes to my child and he is mad that his gf knows the TRUTH....so i am EVIL so he told me and he has no respect and all i want to do is fight...(mind you this is a show in front of her..because we have been fine while he has been telling me how much he misses me....) UGHHHHHHHHHHHH
so hes like you can text me the time and hangs up...
NO...i wont...and i informed his parents to let him know that...
i have bent over backwards...i have raised this child...i got belittled for going to school ONE night yet...its ok that hes NEVE around, never calls and never gets her...but i am the one keeping her from him???
WTF
i just know this...i am NOT the one playing both sides of the field...i am not the one with the alcohol and drug charges..i can PROVE how he NEVER calls this kid....how he has NOT at all supported her...and how everything is always twisted on me....
and i am not doing this anymore....i cannot!!!!
its NOT ok.....
this is my life....it never stops...one thing is always right into the other...
alright i am done venting...for now
